are you actually overstressing your aircraft or do think its a bug? (abrupt changes in direction, overspeeding etc will overstress the aircraft)
The easy way to avoid this is to turn crash detection off or your realims settings down.....the correct way to avoid it is to fly more smoothly and within the flight parameters of the aircraft
ive found out what it is if the overspeed warning comes on it gives me about 5 seconds to reduce speed or it overstresses i hardly get to fly for long usualy only 5 minutes but its only in one of the multiplayer sessions.