If the vis if good enough, they will request a visual approach. Where the tower will tell them to join downwind or base, or straight in, or what ever, and they go from there. They would be using the PAPI in that case, makes life so much easier, they guide you right to the 1000ft markers.
But if they cant get visual, they would have to use the approach plate, which is a piece of paper that tells them all the info they need for the approach. Im not sure what approach Nelson is, VOR/DME i guess?
It would tell them what radial from the VOR to be on. And things like at 5 nm, no lower than xxxxft, at 3nm, no lower than xxxft and so on. So they kinda step down, hence the name distance steps (i think thats the name anyway

) Until they get visual on the runway, then the PAPI takes them in from there.
But yeah, your best bet is the PAPI, the only problem with them is they dont really work through cloud.
Just keep practicing really, you have to build pictures in your head about how an approach should look like, and they only come with practice. Doing circuits is the easiest way to do that, even if its in a 747.