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toprob wrote:QUOTE (toprob @ Mar 27 2013,9:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>'Childish' might not be as accurate as 'child-like', or naive.
Naive in expecting that this would finally 'win' this ongoing feud, and put an end to the Thatchers for ever.
Naive in thinking that you could continue posting regarding this matter even when asked not to do so.
Naive in thinking that it was ok to call the admin cowards, amongst other things, without any regard for the rules, without consequences.
Ian and Doug have been suspended for a month.
It seams to me Rob that your the only one on here that is worried about Ian and Doug's postings in a negative way looks like everyone else is in support of them?
deaneb wrote:QUOTE (deaneb @ Mar 28 2013,9:22 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>It seems that the forum rules and guidelines need to updated to include - no posts if a moderator does not agree with your (or many others) opinion. As it stands, I fail to see how Ian and Dougs postings breach the current rules, except for the fact you as moderator do not agree with discussing something that many others may not be aware of.
Rules 2 & 6 have certainly been broken in my view.
With what I know about the group of people that live over the ditch it won't be the last we hear of them (there is a lot more than what you see here and elsewhere in the public that Robin and myself have had to deal with in the past) and they will be scheming their next move and this thread has just put a lot of fuel on the fire. Hopefully i will be pleasantly surprised that is the last we hear from them but i am not holding my breath. I am also of the view this whole thread should of been ditched earlier on. All this could of been sorted out via PMs and emails instead of in a public forum. If you have personal grievances with any one (whether a forum member or not) posting on a public forum is not the place, no matter how right you are.
I would also like to advise that I am resigning from admin once we get replacements. I just don't have the time to put the effort in when a crisis occurs. I should of resigned last year when life got very busy. It's also a pretty thankless job overall (not a great ad I know!) when the proverbial hits the fan and tough decisions have to be made. We are often stuck between a rock and hard place. In saying that this forum pretty much runs itself apart from the screenshot comp which Doug does an excellent job of despite the other issues. Any volunteers?Last edited by Naki on Thu Mar 28, 2013 9:26 am, edited 1 time in total.
creator2003 wrote:QUOTE (creator2003 @ Mar 28 2013,11:06 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Ok fair enough ,still the damage has been done and im sure it was a hard decision banning for any period the guy that has supported your payware addons by means of free agn for many years ,i know i couldnt or wouldnt do such a thing personally and would support anybody taking on the pirates which have damaged his business and sales ..real hard having to choose im sure
Yes, it was one of the hardest decisions I've ever had to make here. Ian and I have been friends for a long time, and this isn't the first screaming match we've had, so I would hope that we get back to normal at some stage. However I do think that if I let this go because he was my friend, supporter and truly nice guy, then I'd be setting myself up for an accusation of letting my mates break the rules. Being in this position -- having to choose between doing what I think is right for NZFF, and supporting my mates -- is really not possible to sustain, and this is one of the reasons why I've wanted to resign for a long, long time.
toprob wrote:QUOTE (toprob @ Mar 28 2013,12:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Yes, it was one of the hardest decisions I've ever had to make here. Ian and I have been friends for a long time, and this isn't the first screaming match we've had, so I would hope that we get back to normal at some stage. However I do think that if I let this go because he was my friend, supporter and truly nice guy, then I'd be setting myself up for an accusation of letting my mates break the rules. Being in this position -- having to choose between doing what I think is right for NZFF, and supporting my mates -- is really not possible to sustain, and this is one of the reasons why I've wanted to resign for a long, long time.
I'm sure it was a tough decision. I hope you are satisfied in your mind that:
a. Both suspended individuals were forewarned that if their behaviour continued they would be suspended.
b. The rest of us clearly understand how and where rules 2 and 6 were broken, because I'm still confused.
I don't want this situation to get any worse than it is. We all need to be clear on what and how these rules apply to avoid this happening again.
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